Cats & Kids: What Do I Need to Know?

Growing up with a pet can be a wonderful and enriching part of childhood. Many children form strong bonds with animals, and it’s not unusual for first requests to include, “I want a kitten!”

Cats can absolutely thrive in family homes, but it’s important to understand how children and cats experience the world differently.
 

Supervision Is Essential

Young children, especially toddlers, are naturally curious. They love to poke, prod, grab, and explore — often without realising how rough this can feel to a cat. A cat that feels frightened or overwhelmed may become defensive, which is why cats and children should always be supervised by a responsible teenager or adult.

Unlike puppies, cats are generally less tolerant of unintentional rough handling and do not enjoy being chased. Cats need choice, space, and the ability to walk away when they’ve had enough.
 

Teaching Gentle Behaviour

Helping children learn how to interact calmly and respectfully with cats takes time, patience, and consistency — but it is incredibly rewarding.

Some helpful tips include:

• Teaching children to gently pat rather than grab

• Showing them where cats like (and don’t like) to be touched

• Explaining when a cat wants space

• Leading by example — children learn best by watching adults
   

Building Positive Relationships

Simple, positive interactions can help children and cats build trust:

• Let children offer treats under supervision so cats associate kids with good things

• Encourage shared play using toys like balls or wand toys — this keeps hands at a safe distance

• Teach children to sit quietly while the cat approaches them, rather than chasing
   

Choosing the Right Cat for Your Family

Not all cats are suited to busy households with young children. At Ingrid’s Haven, we carefully assess each cat’s temperament and will always guide families toward a cat that is child-friendly, confident, and suited to their lifestyle.
 

A Safe, Happy Home for Everyone

With supervision, gentle teaching, and respect for a cat’s boundaries, children and cats can form beautiful, lifelong bonds. When everyone understands each other’s needs, the home becomes a safer, calmer, and happier place for both kids and cats.